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Welcome to! I am so glad you’ve found my kinky corner of the world.

I believe that BDSM, kink, and all things sexual and orgasmic can be positive forces in our lives. When we’re in touch with our sexuality, regardless of the flavor, we are able to have healthier relationships with ourselves and others.

My mission is to make BDSM and kink less scary, more accessible, and as realistic as possible – while still bringing plenty of sexy heat. With the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, more people have been introduced to the world of kink, but not always with the right information.

At the age of 32, I was divorced, lost in the world, and unable to have an orgasm. I couldn’t fix all of my problems, but I could take care of one thing. I started blogging to share my journey into masturbation, orgasms, and re-discovering my sexuality that I thought I’d lost years before.

Somewhere along the way, I discovered kink, BDSM, and the D/s lifestyle. Realizing I’m a submissive woman helped me make sense of myself. Allowing my babygirl self to come forth allowed me to share the most vulnerable part of myself with the people who matter most. I’m now in a 24/7 relationship with my Daddy Dom, the often-mentioned, always supportive John Brownstone.

I’ve learned so much about myself, D/s, sex blogging, and turning others on that I now use this site to share what I’ve learned and give back to the people who’ve made this site what it is today: you, the readers.

There’s a lot going on in the pages of To get you started, a few key definitions:

Kinky fuckery: Any sexy act or moment between willing partners that might be considered kinky sex; kinky fun of all kinds

Vanilla: This is not a term used to insult anyone around here. This simply refers to anything not kinky. You’ll see me use it regularly to describe parts of my own life.

Your kink isn’t my kink: This is a judgement-free zone. Your kink isn’t my kink, but your kink is okay. No kink shaming allowed!

John Brownstone: The love of my life, the Daddy Dom to my babygirl submissive, the IT department for the podcast, and my partner in crime (both kinky and vanilla). You can stalk him on his website or on Tumblr.

Within the pages of the site you’ll find information for:

  • Dominants, submissives, and kinksters of all kinds
  • Anyone who likes to have orgasms
  • Anyone looking for new toys to play with or books to read
  • Erotic authors who want to promote their sexy reads
  • Sex bloggers looking to find new audiences
  • Any sexy business with a desire to grow their business

That sounds like a lot, doesn’t it? Let me break it down for you.

For Kinksters

For Anyone Who Likes To Be Turned On

Authors/Bloggers/Sexy Businesses

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