Over the years I’ve tried a lot of sex toys, read a lot of books, and tested plenty of products in the name of more kinky fuckery. Here is a list of my personal faves, and a few that John Brownstone loves, too. Nothing makes this list that I don’t genuinely love.
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Lodbrock — BDSM restraint and impact play
My Nawashi — Bondage rope
Bear-Things — Cuffs, collars, and other leather pieces
Cane-iac — Delrin canes, paddles, and other impact play toys
Kink Crate — Subscription service filled with different kink toys every month!
Kinky Cloth (Use code KINKYKAYLA to save 25%!) — Clothing, toys, and other kinky gear that’s fun and light-hearted with a Caregiver/little twist
Oxyd Creations — Sustainable BDSM gear including collars, cuffs, harnesses, and more made from recycled bicycle rubber
The Butters Lube (Use code Kayla and save 5%) — This is my go-to lube, and nothing else even compares.
Hot Octopuss — John Brownstone and I love everything made by Hot Octopuss including the Pulse III Duo, the Atom, the Atom Plus, and the Queen Bee
The Original Magic Wand — A classic and a favorite, it’s great for orgasm play and big orgasms
Tyler by Svakom — It’s a cock ring that buzzes for the wearer OR your partner
Crescendo by Mystery Vibe — a bendable vibrator for anyone and everyone
Ambit Effulgence — a beautiful dildo from Godemiche
HUM dildo (Use code kaylalords to save 10%) — it’s a dildo that remembers what you like
Pink B.O.B. — This high-powered body massager has become my go-to for quick but powerful clitoral orgasms
Simpatic.Us (Use code LOVINGBDSM10 to save $10!) — A survey and report system that helps you and your partner start the conversation about moving into a kink and D/s life.