My Orgasms Belong to Him #podcast

One of the first things I learned about the kinky life – long before I had my own Dominant partner – was that orgasm control is a thing.

“Your orgasms belong to me.”

I can’t even tell you how many times I read or heard that phrase long before my orgasms belonged to John Brownstone. It’s almost as hot and bone-melting as “Good girl.” In the beginning of D/s, it never occurred to me that my orgasms would ever be my own in D/s, and I like it that way.

Orgasm control happens in so many different ways and is on a spectrum (isn’t everything?). So let’s talk about it.

From the show:

  • I’m giving away a Crescendo vibrator from Mystery Vibe!
  • Orgasm control isn’t for every D/s relationship.
  • It happens on a spectrum from light to extreme.
  • Forced orgasms are my personal favorite and can be done in different ways.
  • Edged orgasms aren’t for everyone but can turn into a huge climax at the end.
  • Orgasm denial happens in a variety of ways from delaying an orgasm to total chastity for a certain amount of time.
  • Having permission to orgasm or masturbate (or even touch yourself) is all part of orgasm control.
  • We got postcards!

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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