Last week, John Brownstone and I entertained some amazing kinky friends who came from out of town to visit for the weekend. No, I won’t tell you who – I respect their need for privacy.
Through the laughter and over the food (gawd, all the food), I saw new things, had new experiences, and (side note) learned that our dog has zero problem with kink because he didn’t even bat an eye when a submissive was bent over the table and spanked.
So of course, I felt the need to share what I learned with everyone in this week’s podcast episode. The main lesson is one I already know, but I find many people are too shy to act on – kinky friends are a good thing for multiple reasons.
And no worries, a full transcript is on the podcast page for those who prefer to read.
From the show:
- Kinky friends came to visit!
- The ideal visit between you and the online friends you make is one where that online ease continues into real life.
- Always listen to your instinct if you get a bad vibe, but most people are as nervous as you are about meeting other kinksters.
- Making kinky friends is a good thing.
- These friendships remind you that you’re not alone.
- You’ll learn how other people handle their kinky side.
- Kayla and John took their kinky friends on a few fieldtrips – first to the munch, then to the club. That’s probably not typical of other times you make new kinky friends or meet them in real life for the first time.
- Kayla experienced a revelation of her own watching her kinky friends interact in her home.
- Not reaching out to your online or in-person kinky community can make you feel isolated.
- You might even forget that other people do BDSM and specifically D/s different than you do.
- Feel free to leave your tales of making and meeting kinky friends in the comments or contact Kayla directly.
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