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When Kinky Friends Come to Visit #podcast

Last week, John Brownstone and I entertained some amazing kinky friends who came from out of town to visit for the weekend. No, I won't tell you who - I respect their need for privacy.

Through the laughter and over the food (gawd, all the food), I saw new things, had new experiences, and (side note) learned that our dog has zero problem with kink because he didn't even bat an eye when a submissive was bent over the table and spanked.

So of course, I felt the need to share what I learned with everyone in this week's podcast episode. The main lesson is one I already know, but I find many people are too shy to act on - kinky friends are a good thing for multiple reasons.

And no worries, a full transcript is on the podcast page for those who prefer to read.

From the show:

  • Kinky friends came to visit!
  • The ideal visit between you and the online friends you make is one where that online ease continues into real life.
  • Always listen to your instinct if you get a bad vibe, but most people are as nervous as you are about meeting other kinksters.
  • Making kinky friends is a good thing.
  • These friendships remind you that you're not alone.
  • You'll learn how other people handle their kinky side.
  • Kayla and John took their kinky friends on a few fieldtrips - first to the munch, then to the club. That's probably not typical of other times you make new kinky friends or meet them in real life for the first time.
  • Kayla experienced a revelation of her own watching her kinky friends interact in her home.
  • Not reaching out to your online or in-person kinky community can make you feel isolated.
  • You might even forget that other people do BDSM and specifically D/s different than you do.
  • Feel free to leave your tales of making and meeting kinky friends in the comments or contact Kayla directly.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, and an opinionated marketer. I’m also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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