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When Kinky Friends Come to Visit #podcast

Last week, John Brownstone and I entertained some amazing kinky friends who came from out of town to visit for the weekend. No, I won’t tell you who – I respect their need for privacy.

Through the laughter and over the food (gawd, all the food), I saw new things, had new experiences, and (side note) learned that our dog has zero problem with kink because he didn’t even bat an eye when a submissive was bent over the table and spanked.

So of course, I felt the need to share what I learned with everyone in this week’s podcast episode. The main lesson is one I already know, but I find many people are too shy to act on – kinky friends are a good thing for multiple reasons.

And no worries, a full transcript is on the podcast page for those who prefer to read.

From the show:

  • Kinky friends came to visit!
  • The ideal visit between you and the online friends you make is one where that online ease continues into real life.
  • Always listen to your instinct if you get a bad vibe, but most people are as nervous as you are about meeting other kinksters.
  • Making kinky friends is a good thing.
  • These friendships remind you that you’re not alone.
  • You’ll learn how other people handle their kinky side.
  • Kayla and John took their kinky friends on a few fieldtrips – first to the munch, then to the club. That’s probably not typical of other times you make new kinky friends or meet them in real life for the first time.
  • Kayla experienced a revelation of her own watching her kinky friends interact in her home.
  • Not reaching out to your online or in-person kinky community can make you feel isolated.
  • You might even forget that other people do BDSM and specifically D/s different than you do.
  • Feel free to leave your tales of making and meeting kinky friends in the comments or contact Kayla directly.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and speaker. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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