Daddy wrote a post a few weeks on what it meant to be my Daddy. Jolynn Raymond saw it and asked if she could reblog it. Crazy enough, I was invited to write a companion piece on what it means to be his Babygirl.
From my part:
Being a babygirl means that our D/s relationship doesn’t center around following strict protocol. I have rules, of course, and some of those rules are simply to please my Daddy, but most of them are to help me be healthier, grow as a person, or accomplish any goals I may have.
I am free to speak my mind, as long as I am respectful. I am encouraged to giggle and talk, to be silly and goofy, and to allow my playful side to come out into the open. When we are together, which isn’t often enough as we’re separated by 440 miles, I am often tucked by his side, holding his hand, leaning into him. Public displays of affection, especially spontaneous displays, are welcome and encouraged.
As a babygirl, when I feel comfortable, I’m often talkative, my words spilling over themselves in a giggly rush to come out. I am embarrassed easily, often blushing and shying away when Daddy says or does something sexually explicit (especially in public). I look to Daddy for answers or guidance when we’re together, and often when we’re not. I’m able to be vulnerable with him – giving voice to my fears, hopes, and joys. He sees a part of me that no one ever sees. With him, my hard, outer-shell falls away, and I allow my softer side to show.
If you haven’t seen it yet, take a look! Click here to read the whole post.
Ahhhh!!! Stop posting it!! I GIVE!
This is wonderful Kayla 🙂 and I LOVE that it is linked to your Daddy’s post. What I especially love is the perception I see in your Daddy’s post of your need to let go, and let your inner child out. Your posts have made me think just what it is that my SIr’s dominance enables me to do. He has clearly changed me in the past few years, I am a very different beast, that is for certain. Thank you for making me think!
And yes Angel, just give in…you are SUCH a little.
I think the D changes the s in every D/s relationship, but I also think the s changes the D. It’s a very symbiotic relationship.
Angel is a little but you my darling are a closet little…just accept it. 😉
Ha ha ha!! You deserve some hassel….
LBP! I’ll concede to a PROBABLY babygirl….
Angel, as soon as I organize my thoughts, I will be writing a post on what it is that my Sir’s dominance allows me to do. I am not a little, but there are definitely things he has brought out in me that were long dormant, supressed by hypocritical “conservative” parents.
Can’t wait to read it!
Get on it, girl! Waiting with bated breath. Your stuff is always good too. 🙂
I look forward to it. Your blog made it pretty clear to me where I am likely landing in this. 🙁 like CRYSTAL clear. /damn you/
I agree Kayla that D/s is a symbiotic relationship in a good D/s relationship. It can be parasitic if it is not a healthy relationship just as in any.
Ours is symbiotic, over the course of time we have been together I not only see how you have grown but myself as well.
😀 Is that you’re way of saying that I’m right? You know how I feel about those words. /giggles
On a serious note, I am honored and humbled to be a part of your growth…and I love that I am the one who gets to benefit from it.
Ohhhhh cuteness! Love it.
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