Sex Writing

Giving Up My #Anonymity…Sort Of…#ASMSG

I’ve made what feels like a momentous decision for myself. And all because I really wanted to work with a website that knew it wouldn’t be able to use the picture I use for my avatar as Kayla Lords. In their email requesting my bio, they mentioned the need for a picture, preferably of me. /sigh

Starting this blog, I went to great pains to create a completely different online profile so that unless you’re some super-sleuth, no one could connect me to my vanilla self. But now I want to do something more than just blog my sexual fantasies – and to me that means becoming a real person for the world.

With the help of a good man this weekend, I had several pictures to choose from. He actually made it hard because there were several I liked. I let my seven year old pick his favorite from the two I couldn’t decide between. It’s a family affair around here, even if he has no idea that he’s helping his mom propel her erotica writing career. I’ll save that for when he’s older and can afford a therapist.

If you follow me in various other places, you may start noticing the change in avatars, but because I love my blog followers, you get the first look at the real me…or as much of the real me as I’m willing to show…



And yes, that’s Mr. Teddy.

About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!


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