Where the hell did it go? I lost seven pounds last week. I wrote a steamy-ass blog that made other people hot and bothered. I had amazing orgasms this morning.
Where the hell is my sexy?
Even Tumblr isn’t doing it for me tonight. What. In. The. Hell?!
On another note, I did my taxes tonight (can my children stay small forever?). My oldest child (age 7) now wears glasses. And I got a small bonus at work today.
Life isn’t bad, and I’m not complaining.
But I am in no way turned on by ANYTHING. And it’s pissing me off.
I beg of you, if you know where my sexy is, please bring it back to me. I’m feeling decidedly dumpy over here, and I don’t like it. Not one bit!
It’ll come back. Mine did.
For me, what did the trick was getting angry. I don’t know that it would work for you. I just know that lack of sexual desire for me is a symptom of suppressing some strong emotion that needs to come out. Since I don’t suppress much EXCEPT anger, that’s what it usually is.
I suppressed my anger for 21 years in my marriage and I didn’t hardly care about having sex ever.
May you find your emotional outlet.
24 hours ago I was a horny, wet little girl…it shouldn’t just turn off like a light switch…knowing me, I’m worried about something that will correct itself…that’s usually what happens…but DAMN, it annoys the hell out of me…
MIne left me to when things ended with my Master and once before when a Very special man broke my heart…took months…
Mine seems to come and go…it’s fairly annoying, actually…
Sexy is a state of mind! Do something for yourself… It will come back… Get a massage and I don’t mean a rub and tug place… Lol! Nails done. Buy a salt scrub and scrub that gray mood away…
I’m getting my Brazilian on Friday…considering a mani/pedi too…
Awesome!
Really excited about the Brazilian…I might have to play alone, but damn it, I should enjoy it, too! lol
You get your wax done… I just thought of something sexy and you could blog to everyone about it later… Ok I saw this pic on Pinterest a girl sitting on a mirror.. Having a little fun with herself… That may be a really awesome experience! You could blog about it and tell us how it went… That’s bringing the sexy…. What do you think?
It’s been a while since I posted about masturbation…those usually are my most popular ones…I think y’all like it when I talk about that…lol
LOL!
I’ve never dared a Brazilian! Too cool!
Even with no man in my life, I won’t give those up…
I will try and find something or a pic that can help you out!
I’m good with that! 🙂
It happens to the best of us. Hang tight.
One day I’m good, the next I’m ick, the day after that I’m better…WTF?!
Hum the song by Justin Timberlake and I promise it’ll come back. Every good girl needs a break. 🙂
This is true…and yeah, that was the song in my head when I wrote this…lol
Why am I not surprised? Giggle, snort.
/giggle
Ah ha!! So this randy-ness is YOUR fault! I have mine AND yours!! Here, take it back would you? I sure as heck don’t need more than my share.
I am sorry you are feeling that way. I went for such a long period of time feeling unsexy.
It comes in spurts and fits…I’d rather consistently be SOMETHING…oh well, this too shall pass…
Like the weather? If you don’t like it, wait a while and it will change?
When you’re used to being even even-keeled, the strong one, the emotionally mature one (like you have to be with kids and exes), it’s so hard when THAT man, that dominant man comes along and strips you down to raw emotions and then, for whatever reason, goes away. Now your left with the raw emotions and nothing left to cover them up because you opened yourself heart and soul to being vulnerable.
So, yeah, this too will pass. Doesn’t mean we have to fucking like it.
/sigh…I hate it when you’re right…
In my head, I’ve always been a tempest brewing…outwardly, to a certain extent, I’m very even and nonplussed…
This back and forth crap sucks…
Tell me about it.
Well, you did just finish your taxes. That’s enough to wipe the sexy out of all of us, too. 🙂
I know right?
Well I agree get a mani/pedi and tomorrow pick your favorite sexiest outfit with nice shoes (heels) fix your hair and make-up to the max. If you feel sexy on the outside it will make you feel sexy on the inside.
Barbie
This is true…and I have avoided doing that lately since I gained a few pounds…
Curves are beautiful. Size 0 on up is sexy!!! Look at Marilyn Monroe she was not stick skinny. Im not sure on your size that personal and a girl would never ask another girl their size but whatever you are and if you love it then show it off. 🙂
The sad thing is that I’m not a BIG girl…I used to be and I decided to lose weight, and I did…but sometimes I still see that big girl in the mirror…I’m an average size woman with about 20 lbs I’d like to lose…but just knowing I’ve gained makes me feel dumpy…even if it’s just a few pounds…I’m working on it, though…:-)
I had a friend who was a big girl and did the same thing. Yet I find she looks average and she always thinks the same thing. But I have a feeling all girls feel that way, I do at times. Also your height is a factor that 20lbs may not even be a big deal in looks wise. But if you wanna lose it go for it :))
I feel like that if I have eaten a good bit of salt and I usually drink loads of water.
We can be blog workout buddies lol. Just kidding Im a bitch once I get really focus and imagine biggest loser Im almost as bad as julian.
Oh shit…sometimes I would say that’s probably what I need…but I’ve been doing well, with a little help from a friend…I workout first thing in the morning, I’m watching what I need. Slow and steady is my motto… 🙂
Yes being slow with it helps because it will help you keep it off longer. I can lose weight fast but Im always five pounds away from my goal. Or Ill gain some back then I lose it again. Im always going up and down between 8lbs. Those pounds and I just dont get along. If I lose 20lbs that I want I know S/O will think Im to skinny. Even though I would love to be my high school weight I know it would be crazy.
Oh I have to be hard like that though because if Im not then I wont work out. And I dont really eat healthy so I have to.
I can see us dancing (thats my main cardio..zumba) we would be the sexy ones in the room lol.
Oh try pole dancing that really helps with the inner thigh and you have to pick you whole body weight so it helps with strenght and your core muscle too.
I love Zumba!
I can barely pick myself up off the ground to stand…I can’t imagine the pole…lol