One of my best friends from high school came out of the closet towards the end of college. We lost touch with another after high school, and I didn’t find out until a few years ago. The moment he told me it felt like the most natural thing to me – as if I had always known, and I probably did know it all those years ago. Yesterday, I saw him for the first time since 2003, and it was as if we’d never been apart.
“I love eating ass,” he said. “And I can bottom or top, doesn’t matter to me.”
“Well, hell, I’m learning how to masturbate and come,” I replied. “I’m still not sure about how I feel about anyone being near my ass. Maybe with the right person.”
“Well, if you ever do anything, make sure its clean, very clean,” he advised.
“Makes sense to me!” I retorted. “Ewwww, I wouldn’t want to think about eating a dirty ass! Yuck!”
“Yuck is right.”
*****
“Kayla, are you bi?” he asked.
“No! I don’t think so…probably not,” I said. “But I probably wouldn’t say no if the right person tried to make a move on me.”
“Have you ever had a threesome?” he asked a few minutes later. “You would probably love it. They’re pretty awesome.”
“So you’ve had a threesome?” I don’t think I kept the incredulity out of my voice.
“Oh sure, and a fivesome.” He said it so nonchalantly.
“I’m curious, but I’m also a jealous bitch,” I stated. “I wouldn’t want to feel ignored, and I don’t know how I’d feel about watching my man with someone else.”
*****
“So, are you loud during sex?” I asked, randomly.
“Hell, yeah!” he almost shouted.
I laughed. “Me too! If I’m quiet, you’re not doing it right!”
We laughed hysterically for a few minutes, sharing in the truth of that statement.
*****
“Ok, so I need a male perspective,” I started. “I love to suck cock, but a lot of what I see and read involves sucking nuts. Your thoughts?”
“Oh holy hell, be careful!” he exclaimed. “They’re really sensitive, and you can hurt someone if you’re not careful.”
“Duly noted.”
*****
“Oh hell yeah, when C’s pounding my ass, I’m all like, ‘Yeah, give it to me buddy, now, now, now!” he told me.
I just smiled. As open as I am, even I’m not sure what the best response is to that one.
We’re both highly sexual people who, for different reasons, kept ourselves very repressed for years. He’s a single man who just wants to love and be loved – who happens to be gay and lives in the deep South. I’m a single woman who wants the exact same thing and love a man who’s got a drama-filled life. We’re two peas in pod, and we adore one another.
Does it count that we really did talk about other stuff, too?
I read “I just love eating ass” and I laughed out loud and said “that’s awesome” 🙂 nice post
It was such a blunt statement, that I almost laughed…but it opened up the conversation quite nicely…lol
Glad you enjoyed!
Well, that was about an open honest conversation! Lol
It was both shocking and refreshing…and I feel more educated about men now…