A Few Things I Might Have Forgotten To Mention

It’s strange. I can tell you what sounds my pussy makes when John Brownstone fucks me. I’ll tell you the meanest thoughts I have about myself when anxiety kicks my ass. Hell, somewhere in the 1500+ blog posts, I’m sure I’ve shared some of my dirtiest secrets and fantasies that I’ve never articulated to anyone. (Yes, John Brownstone knows them but that’s because he reads every single thing I write.)

But you know what I suck at? Telling you when I’ve done A Thing. And that Thing is promotional in nature and I want you to go there and do your own things. Yeah, I’m bad about the things.

That’s as clear as mud, isn’t it?

Several weeks ago (as I’m sure you noticed) Loving BDSM took a break for me to rip my hair out and primal scream build a website for it. Then we came back, and I started linking to the new website ( But I forgot a little something…

To tell you All The Things! Because I suck at self-promotion. So here goes…

Loving BDSM Community

We’re a real-live/online kinky community. Forums for people to chat, video content, Dom and sub meetings, plus online munches (those last two are still in the works). If you love the kink information we share on the podcast or that I’ve written here on the blog, this is the place for you.

There are three levels of membership and one is (of course) absolutely free. That gets you access to the forums. When you become a paying member, that’s when you get the video content. Interested? Become a member of our kinky community!!

30 Days of D/s

I’ve wanted to do a thing for more than a year now (there I go again with “things”), and it was only this year I made it a reality. 30 Days of D/s is a FREE email program that you can sign up for. Every day for 30 days, you’ll get an email from us with a thought, idea, or concept related to Dominance and submission, plus resources to help you understand what it is. You can use that email as a conversation starter with your partner, write about it in journal, blog about it on your website, or just think about what it means for you.

And if you really hate getting more email or you’re impatient and want to do it all at once, I have it available as a PDF workbook you can buy and download.

Join 30 Days of D/s (FREE) or Buy the Workbook ($4.99)

More Stuff Coming!

The community’s been open and available for membership for a few weeks, and we’ve already got ideas for new stuff and implemented other ideas from the community. There’s a forum for the episodes so everyone who wants to can discuss what they thought of the show with other listeners. Soon we’ll have a kinky book club – I’m working out the details of that right now. Each month we’ll read a book about kink, sexuality, or some good old smut, and discuss. Both are part of the free membership.

PLUS! Merchandise will be added very soon. It was supposed to be live right now. I’ve had more technical difficulties than any sane, non-tech person should have to deal with for the past two weeks. So that’s on hold, but it’s coming. Stickers, shirts, and mugs with some of our catch-phrases like “Coffee is my love language” and “Keep it kinky, y’all!” plus more. Lots more.

So there, I’m not a total slacker anymore. I’ve let you know about The Thing I’ve Done. If you’re interested and are here for the kink “knowledge” I appear to impart (that’s highly subjective) then that’s a place to check out.

Check us out at!

About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!


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