Yes, You Can Be a Parent and Still Have a D/s Relationship #podcast

This week my oldest child had his 11th birthday. 11, y’all. I’ve been doing this for 11 freaking years – and most days I still feel clueless.

While I was in the middle of running around getting ready for his birthday – and mentally preparing myself for the raucous sleepover he’s got planned for the weekend – I realized I was juggling my parenting priorities and my D/s priorities. Not that it bothered me, but it also made me think about questions I get sometimes.

Is it okay to be kinky if you’re a parent? How do you manage a D/s relationship as a parent?

The answers are yes and with patience and a willingness to adapt to your situation.

I’m pretty sure there’s plenty more I could have said about being kinky and a parent, but we have to start somewhere.

From the show:

  • I’m taking some time to slow down and regroup in a kinda, sorta blogging hiatus
  • My oldest turned 11 this week. Wow.
  • Any parent can have a D/s relationship if that’s what you want.
  • Special needs parents can be kinky too but they face more challenges – and I’m no expert. If you’ve managed it with all the demands of being a special needs parents, I’d love to learn from you.
  • Being pregnant and kinky is possible with some modifications.
  • Being kinky while parenting toddlers isn’t the same as having older kids.
  • Not all kink is sexual.
  • You have more freedom as your children get older.
  • Want kinky sex? You’ll probably have to plan for it.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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