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Kinky Fuckery and Sex in Our D/s Relationship #podcast

We’ve been through a nearly sexless month, recovery from medical procedures, and way too much freaking stress, and with all of that, John Brownstone still sat down with me to record a Loving BDSM podcast episode, and guess what we’re talking about?! Sex, baby!

It’s our very first unscripted episode (which means I still don’t have a transcript ready for anyone to read) but I think it’s us at our most natural. We discussed turn-ons as a Dominant and submissive, being sexually available at all times (me, not him), kinks, fetishes, and we laughed…a lot. Oh, and a drinking game was suggested for the 38 minute episode – anytime you hear me say cock, cocky, or (my favorite) twitchy cock – or some variation – take a shot!

Today’s my birthday (the big 3-6) and a birthday surprise was added toward the very end. I didn’t find out about it until after the editing process was over. My very own Daddy Dom sang happy birthday to me. Gawd, I love that man.

Okay, y’all, get your earbuds out because this episode definitely isn’t safe for work. We had a lot of fun while we made this episode. Hopefully, you’ll enjoy it as much as we did! As always, feel free to share or leave a review on iTunes – you’ll help others find us that way!

From the show…

  • His favorite part of sex as a Dominant – the creativity
  • Her favorite part of sex as a submissive – the power and control she gives him
  • Going from not wanting sex at all to fucking like rabbits. Kayla wants to know – how does a Dominant go from 0 to 60?
  • Kayla might always be sexually available to her Dominant, but she’s not turned on 100% of the time, either.
  • Being sexually available in a D/s relationship requires trust and communication. John Brownstone points out that it requires a sense of responsibility as a Dominant. “You don’t want to break your toys.”
  • Tumblr porn can help share what you like and what turns you on.
  • A kinky scene in the club probably won’t end in sex, but it may be a very sexual experience. For Kayla, it’s almost always an erotic moment. Except for this one time…
  • John Brownstone doesn’t get turned on just because he’s in his Dom mode. The Dom Voice doesn’t equal an automatic hard-on. What he feels in that moment is all mental, but still a little erotic.
  • Everyone has different turn-ons, kinks, or fetishes. John Brownstone is turned on by boots – one of his fetishes. Kayla is turned on by spankings, hair-pulling, face-smacking, and above all, power.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, an opinionated marketer, and speaker. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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