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The Difference Between BDSM and Abuse #Dominance and #Submission

I’ve seen this all over the place and reblogged it on my Tumblr a few times. It needs to be highlighted more often. There is a big difference between BDSM (of which Dominance and submission are a part) and actual abuse. (You may need to click to enlarge and make it easier to read.)

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Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

2 Comments

  • I am very passionate about this, having unfortunately had abusive experiences in the beginning of my journey as a submissive. Helping newbie subs avoid my mistakes is always at the front of my mind when I write.

    Thank you for posting. You never know who you might save

    xx

    • That’s how I look at it – you never know who’ll stumble across this and learn something new.

      I’m sorry that happened to you, but I’m glad you turned it into a way to help others avoid it. ((HUGS))

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