I’m having a rough week of exhaustion and illness, but I couldn’t let the week go by without a Wicked Wednesday post. This week’s prompt is “assumptions” – and while I’d love to give you something wickedly delicious, I’ve got stuff on my mind…
Assumptions happen all the time. I’m still mildly surprised they happen to me in this sex, BDSM, kink world that I’ve come to love, but let’s clear a few things up.
Don’t assume because I enjoy sex that I’ll want it with just anyone.
Don’t assume because I cum in gushes and squirts, erupting like a volcano, that just anyone can do that to me.
Don’t assume because I kneel and crawl in supplication that I’m somehow weak.
Don’t assume because I take off my panties for him that I’ll take them off for everyone.
Don’t assume because I’m willing to serve one man that I serve them all.
Don’t assume because I’m tied, caged, and bound that I’m not free.
Don’t assume what you see in the dark cracks and crevices of my soul represents all of who I am.
I’m not brave enough or stupid enough, I’m not sure which, to let my vanilla world see the dark chocolate side named Kayla. I know the assumptions they make, because they’re the same assumptions I once made.
Don’t assume because I’m a control-freak, OCD, Type A boss that I’m the same bitch-from-hell at home.
Don’t assume because I blush at the mention of certain topics that I don’t scream, “Fuck me harder, Daddy!” every chance I get. And God, I wish I had more chances.
Don’t assume because I don’t talk about sex or love or men that I’m not a dirty, kinky girl.
Don’t assume because I dress professionally with everything just so that I don’t love wild sex hair, smudged mascara, and ripped panties.
Don’t assume that I’m not wearing a plug or a nipple charm simply because you’ll never see it.
Don’t assume that for all my uptight behavior on the job that I’m not a wild heathen every chance I get.
Don’t assume that the only other name I have is “Mommy.”
Don’t assume because I only show the strongest part of myself that I’m not also soft, willing, and pliant.
Just don’t assume anything.
Lovely text Kayla. I never assume anything, I prefer to be surprised.
Get well and take care.
I don’t like to be surprised as a rule, but I love keeping an open mind. It gives me all sorts of choices in guessing the reality – that may be the storyteller in me, though. 🙂
I am sorry that you are sick hun. I agree people assume they know who you are by the things we present society. Nothing could be farther from the truth could it..
The day I realized that people didn’t realize I was pantiless (for the first time in public), I immediately began wondering what I didn’t know about them… 🙂
it can be hard to not make assumptions, like seeing a person that is in a bad mood, it is easy to just say they are mean. You never know what they may be going through at the time.
We all have different faces we show to others, our work face, home face, family face, lover face, etc. Not often that they overlap.
I have started actively questioning my own assumptions. Someone was driving badly today. My first thought was, “What the hell’s wrong with them?!” And then I stopped myself and wondered if they were ok or just lost. But it’s something I have to remind myself to do…
I love this… especially this line “Don’t assume because I’m tied, caged, and bound that I’m not free.”
I’d like to think a few people could relate to that one. 🙂
There are so many things in this post where when I read it, I nodded, because it rang true for me too. Great post!
Hope you feel better soon!
I hoped others would see themselves in this one… 🙂
Those are good things to not assume, absolutely! Great post 🙂
Thank you! 🙂
Sorry you are ill and hope you are better soon.
As for the rest… lovely. Never Ever Judge a Book by it’s Cover. 🙂
Most people would never expect Wolf to be who he is. Especially when he looks like a “sweet, bearded geek”. Hell, his ex thought he was a SUB! (twitter… snort! Guffaw!) He just never showed that side of himself to her.
Wolf says my disguise as a grannie is pretty good too. 🙂
I still find myself surprised to realize the truth about people after I’ve seen a picture or met them in real life. I think we all carry mental images of what certain “types” of people should look like…but, it’s almost more fun trying to guess who and what someone is once you realize you should never assume anything. 🙂
Exactly. 🙂 BTW, thank you for the idea for a story.
You’re welcome… 🙂
I like the line Molly picked up on them.
People do make assumptions: i know I can be guilty of it too.
We make a decision based on the information we have available to us, but sometimes that square is a cube!
Exactly! I still do it, too…but I try really hard not to…
So many truths in that. Get better soon x
Thank you! I’m getting there…slowly but surely…
Get well soon, great post.
Thank you! I’m on the mend except for a raging headache…
Mmmm… I love dark chocolate 😉
And busting assumptions…
I agree completely on both accounts. Lol
I love this. <3
Thank you! 🙂