Onions, Ogres, and People all Have Layers #podcast

This past week has been one of colds, coughs, and little else. Which meant I was on my own for the Loving BDSM episode this week. (Cue sad face).

Without John Brownstone to keep me on track, I’m sure I rambled, but I get to the point – eventually.

My favorite part of the whole show? The part where I legitimately referenced a Shrek movie. This part, actually…


This week, I talked about the many layers of my life – with a reminder that we ALL have layers to our lives – and sometimes those fit our D/s dynamic, and sometimes they don’t.

From the show:

  • I’ve got a new book out! Sir and Babygirl: Forever Bound is the last in the series. Haven’t read the first book yet? No worries, that one is free.
  • John Brownstone had a bad cold and although that seems better, he now has a bad cough. Not great for talking into a microphone.
  • A lot has been going on while he’s been sick – some mundane, some larger than life.
  • A few times, I didn’t react in what I would consider a “submissive” way.
  • And at least once, I reframed the way I felt about something to feel more submissive.
  • The point of this episode is that we’re all multilayered people and we won’t always react to things the way we think we should as kinksters.
  • And that’s normal.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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