Happy New Year, y’all!
I don’t make resolutions like “Lose 30 pounds!” or “Go skydiving” or whatever it is people resolve to do at the beginning of each year. But I do like to set new goals. I’ve got a few on my mind for 2016 – kinky and vanilla. I’m sure I’ll share them in the days and weeks ahead.
This week’s Loving BDSM podcast episode is dedicated to kinky resolutions – from silly to serious – for anyone who wants to add some goals to their list for this upcoming year. Give it a listen, and if you’ve made a kinky resolution for yourself, share it in the comments!
From the show:
- Kayla shares her resolution ideas for submissives.
- John shares his resolution ideas for Dominants.
- Dominants: Try not to laugh too hard when your submissive squeals when you pinch, smack, or spank them.
- Submissives: Try not to wiggle your ass, wink, and ask your Dominant, “Is that all you’ve got?”
- Dominants: Practice your toy technique more so you don’t rusty or tired in the middle of play.
- Submissives: Expand your limits a little.
- Dominants: Mind fuck your submissive with soft, gentle touches when they’re expecting harder, rougher stuff.
- Submissives: Go to a local munch this year.
- Dominants: Make more time to sit and listen to your submissive.
- Submissives: Learn to speak up more often, especially when things aren’t great.
- Dominants: Stop thinking you have to be good at kink and D/s every moment.
- Submissives: Stop trying to be perfect and feeling like a failure when you aren’t.
- A personal resolution from John Brownstone is to get back to kinky fun and play and try new things this year.
- Kayla’s final resolution: Do the thing that makes you most nervous – let your babygirl/boy side out, try a new sex act, experiment with your Dominant side, whatever it is, do it in 2016.
Have a Happy New Year!
Full transcript of the show is available on the episode page.
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