We’ve been through a nearly sexless month, recovery from medical procedures, and way too much freaking stress, and with all of that, John Brownstone still sat down with me to record a Loving BDSM podcast episode, and guess what we’re talking about?! Sex, baby!
It’s our very first unscripted episode (which means I still don’t have a transcript ready for anyone to read) but I think it’s us at our most natural. We discussed turn-ons as a Dominant and submissive, being sexually available at all times (me, not him), kinks, fetishes, and we laughed…a lot. Oh, and a drinking game was suggested for the 38 minute episode – anytime you hear me say cock, cocky, or (my favorite) twitchy cock – or some variation – take a shot!
Today’s my birthday (the big 3-6) and a birthday surprise was added toward the very end. I didn’t find out about it until after the editing process was over. My very own Daddy Dom sang happy birthday to me. Gawd, I love that man.
Okay, y’all, get your earbuds out because this episode definitely isn’t safe for work. We had a lot of fun while we made this episode. Hopefully, you’ll enjoy it as much as we did! As always, feel free to share or leave a review on iTunes – you’ll help others find us that way!
From the show…
- His favorite part of sex as a Dominant – the creativity
- Her favorite part of sex as a submissive – the power and control she gives him
- Going from not wanting sex at all to fucking like rabbits. Kayla wants to know – how does a Dominant go from 0 to 60?
- Kayla might always be sexually available to her Dominant, but she’s not turned on 100% of the time, either.
- Being sexually available in a D/s relationship requires trust and communication. John Brownstone points out that it requires a sense of responsibility as a Dominant. “You don’t want to break your toys.”
- Tumblr porn can help share what you like and what turns you on.
- A kinky scene in the club probably won’t end in sex, but it may be a very sexual experience. For Kayla, it’s almost always an erotic moment. Except for this one time…
- John Brownstone doesn’t get turned on just because he’s in his Dom mode. The Dom Voice doesn’t equal an automatic hard-on. What he feels in that moment is all mental, but still a little erotic.
- Everyone has different turn-ons, kinks, or fetishes. John Brownstone is turned on by boots – one of his fetishes. Kayla is turned on by spankings, hair-pulling, face-smacking, and above all, power.
Listen to the show
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I had a good time doing this one with you…I think it is my favorite so far.
Happy Birthday Babygirl
Mine, too. We need to that again…and soon…AND often. 🙂
Thank you, Daddy. You treated me like a princess for my birthday. Best. Day. Ever!
Happy birthday!
Thank you!
Just love you two. I can’t believe it’s only been a year that you are living together. Happy birthday Kayls, and many, many more!!!!
Thank you so much! And I know! It feels like we’ve been together forever!
Now that looks like quite a project. I’d better go and have a listen 🙂 Oh and happy b-day Missus Lords – hope you have lots of fun 😉 xox
Thank you! It was the best birthday ever…at least, so far. 🙂