Masturbation Monday

Tools of the Trade #MasturbationMonday #Sponsored

Masturbation is a fun, healthy way for humans to explore their bodies, relieve stress, and become better in bed. Not only is it important to us during maturation, the act helps us prepare for sexual experiences, form our sexual selves, and develop how we view sex. In addition, knowing your own body and what gets you off is intrinsic to having a healthy sexual relationship with your partner and can make you more confident in bed. In addition, it enables you to be more open about your intimate fantasies and desires. If you’re new to pleasuring yourself, there are many tools that can help you on your awesome journey of sexual exploration.


Do it With a Dildo

If you aren’t ready to spend the money on a pricey vibrator, try a dildo. These motionless vibrators look like a mold of a penis and require you to do all the work, which can be good in many circumstances. Available in a range of colors, dildos are made from a number of materials like jelly, plastic, silicone, metal and glass. Glass is the best option because it doesn’t collect bacteria, holds lube well, is easy to clean, and most importantly, feels great. A dildo is a fine tool if you’re just looking for vaginal stimulation. However it’s best to do your homework before using it.

Get Off With a Vibrator

When most of us think of sex toys, the vibrator typically comes to mind. As explained at Adam & Eve, vibrators have become increasingly common among modern women, many of whom consider them an essential item. And that has led to the availability of a variety of forms, including two of the most popular: the bullet and the Rabbit. Before you settle on a device, the most important thing to decide is whether you’re looking for clitoral or vaginal stimulation. The bullet vibrator provides both clitoral and vaginal stimulation giving you options for getting off.

Frequently phallic shaped, the Rabbit not only gives you the same options as a bullet but it enables full on penetration as well—creating the ultimate orgasm. There are also traditional vibrators that look like personal massagers, and they are essentially a good in-between to the bullet and Rabbit. Unfortunately, these devices aren’t made to achieve a g-spot orgasm as the bullet vibrator is small while standard vibrators and the Rabbit are not ergonomically designed to hit this spot.

Hit the G-spot

The best way to reach the magical g-spot during masturbation is to go for the equipment that’ll get you there: the wonderful g-spot vibrator. Much like the Rabbit, g-spot vibrators are penis shaped. However, they often tend to have a thinner and curved shaft as well as a larger tip. This design is due to the placement of your g-spot, which is usually located about three inches up on the vaginal wall. And by curving the toy and adding a wider tip, this type of vibrator makes attaining g-spot stimulation easy. If you want to pull off a good g-spot orgasm—like this one outlined by Tantra Is Love—it’s best to invest in this toy.



Thank you, Adam & Eve, for sharing this information with everyone. My personal favorite is my new Magic Wand, but you have to start somewhere!

About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!


  • Nice information Kayla! I think it is important to try a number of different types of stimulation to find out what really sends you, then discuss it with your Sir. For those of you who do have permission, and a good Dom will realize that newer subs or even older horny ones ( like myself…LOL) will benefit from this exploration, it’s a great time to let your fantasies run as well. Take them back to your Sir. One of the hottest things is for your Sir to order you to pleasure yourself while he watches. How are your going to do that unless you experiment on your own first? Plus, most Sirs LOVE toys!

    • Most Sirs DO love toys, which is hilarious to me.

      I’m glad that before I met Daddy and even after, I had (and took) the freedom to explore what I like and don’t like. Now we explore together more, but sometimes, there’s nothing better than showing him what I like. 🙂

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