Are you a kinkster looking for your forever D/s relationship?
Are you brand new to the idea of kink and completely lost in all the information out there?
You’re in the right place.
In my mind, there are very few rules to BDSM:
- Consent, consent, consent
- Always communicate
- Learn before you play
- Stay safe
- Respect other people’s kinks even if it doesn’t get you off
- Stay legal (no one under 18 allowed, y’all)
That’s about it. After that, the sky’s the limit.
The reality is that there is a lot of information out there about kink, BDSM, and D/s. I’m only one resource out of thousands. It can be hard to figure out who’s got good information and who doesn’t.
Let me help you out:
If you’re completely new to the idea of BDSM or D/s relationships, I’ve got a resource page for you:
In it, I link to posts I’ve written, specific podcast episodes, and website, blog, and book resources you can use to help you on your journey into the world of kink and D/s.
For those of you who’ve been in the lifestyle for a while, but prefer to read about it and learn from others (I get it, I’m the same way!), I’ve got a few options for you:
Posts on Dominance and Submission
Books by Kayla Lords (yes, this is a shameless plug)
Whether you’re curious about kink, ready to put on some leather and get a whip, or you’re constantly looking for something new to learn from different perspectives, you’ve come to the right place. Look around, make yourself at home (no fluids on the furniture, y’all), and welcome to my kinky corner of the world!