Today’s post is written by Erica Suarez-Hillingdon and sponsored by Karma Tantric Massage London.
It was around a year ago that I first heard someone mention the term Dark Tantric Massage. Whilst sharing drinks and naughty conversation with a group at a party, my eyes widened as the topic unfolded. I didn’t know what it was, but I knew it was something I had not yet experienced. Whatever this dark or black tantra was, it sounded naughty and in true Erica spirit, I itched to find out more.
I listened keenly as the couple described how they incorporated darker BDSM elements into their erotic massage sessions. Tied, gagged and riding the brink of climax, they had both found a place within dark tantra that satisfied them completely. I was jealous and immediately hooked on the idea.
Realising the Erotic Massage Connection
How could I have missed this? Both BDSM and Tantric philosophies hinge on balance, control and consent when interacting with partners. It struck me like a firm, short slap on my ass. I had just uncovered a hidden world where BDSM and tantric massage could collide in a heavenly collaboration of kink and sensuality.
My mind raced through the exciting realm of possibilities that my new found kink could entail and they seemed endless. Which BDSM acts could be mixed in this melting pot of erotic satisfaction and why the hell hadn’t I tried them already? My journey into the wonders of Dark Tantric Massage had begun.
So What is Tantric Massage?
You would be forgiven to assume that a tantric massage is just a sensual massage with a happy ending. In fact it differs to most erotic massages since it requires the total engagement of both parties involved for it to be complete. This connection allows partners to control and dance on the boundaries of orgasm in a symphony of pleasure. Waves of erotic energy erupt into a spectacular mind blowing orgasm that will leave your knees weak and trembling for hours.
Here’s where it gets really interesting. What happens if we weave BDSM principles and acts into the fabric of tantric massage? On the surface, these two practices might seem too different to contemplate connecting in any way but if we delve a little deeper it all starts to make total sense.
Shedding Light On the Dark Side of Sensual Massage
Perhaps one obvious BDSM practice that relates with tantric massage is orgasm denial. Tantric techniques involve coasting the boundaries of climax so adding a power element to exercise dominant control over the orgasm changes the sultry air of a tantric massage into a darker element of kink. On the flip side, submissive partners will enjoy the intense craved sensation of erotic submission and loss of control.
Another interesting angle that turns tantric massage dark is using bondage to incorporate restraint. As many of us well know, the restriction of motion can induce exceptional sensations and supreme climaxes. Using ropes or ties to stimulate the breasts or genitals when movement is attempted is another way to invoke a constant reminder that the subject is under control.
Using sensory deprivation or techniques derived from BDSM provides a way for newcomers to experience a softer, beginner’s side to dark tantric massage. Perceptual isolation by way of blindfolds or ear plugs promotes a heightened sense of touch and sensation during sensual massage sessions. This can lead to more intense climax or just increased stimulation during the massage as a whole.
The Journey Into Dark Erotic Massage Continues
Just touching the surface of dark tantric massage, we can see the variety of BDSM acts to possibly fuse with are endless. That’s what has me so excited about dark tantric practice. After all It’s not very often you stumble upon a whole new playground to sexually enjoy.
For those who have yet to discover the supreme connection and incredible climaxes this type of erotic massage delivers I would certainly recommend it. Even writing about it now, my mind wanders into the sessions I have enjoyed and I can feel my panties sticking, shamelessly reminding me just how intense the pleasure is. Take a walk into the world of dark tantric massage and you may never turn back.
About the Author
Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is the Editor of Karma Tantric Massage London, an erotic massage agency that offers a range of sensual tantric experiences for men, women and couples. She writes about the art of tantric massage with all her work based on real-life experience and first-hand research. For more of her work, check out the Karma Tantric Magazine and follow her on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.
this is my ONLY fantasy,has been for years and its truely sad that its such a dark secret. i begin with a full-body massage to completely relax her,then i use a stethoscope to match my rhythm of stimulation to my lover’s heartbeat. this also reserves my energy and prevents muscle cramping in my arms,fingers,and jaw. while i work downstairs,i employ the use of a breast pump to stimulate her breasts since my hands are full elsewhere. i pay careful attention to her moans,heart-rate,and contractions so i know when to back off thus “edging/peaking” her for the final supernova. these sessions last about 2 hours but i’ve gone up to 4 once. i recommend ATLEAST 2 hours of edging to give her an explosive orgasm. think of stimulation as “building sexual tension” and orgasm as a release of that tension. so the more tension you build up,the greater the release will be.