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How a Male Escort Can Help You Explore Your Kinky Desires

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Note: While we’re focusing on male escorts in this piece, this information applies to escorts of any gender — as well as clients of any gender.

Hiring an escort isn’t for everyone, but it’s also not a completely wild idea, either. Plenty of people have found that an escort has been a great experience for them — vanilla or kinky. Today, though, let’s talk about why you might want to hire a male escort to explore your kinky desires.

Types of Male Escort Services

Before we start talking about the reasons, we’d like to differentiate between sexual and non-sexual male escort services. Far too many people associate the word “escort” strictly with sexual services, which isn’t entirely accurate. There are far more non-sexual escort agencies due to the simple fact that sex work is illegal in most countries in the world. So yes, you can hire a sexual male escort service if you want — they’re definitely out there. But the male escort services you may easily find will not automatically offer sexual services. Don’t assume. Do your research. Ask questions. And understand that sex isn’t automatic with any escort or escort service.

Now, let’s get into how a male escort can help you try out a kinky fantasy…

Try a New Kind of Date

Perhaps the best reason for you to hire an escort (non-sexual) is that it’s something that you’ve never done before! Going on a dinner date or a picnic with a handsome, well-mannered, and intelligent man is a great way to break out of your daily routine and have some fun. If you are looking for a companion to ease your boredom, it will make things exciting for you!

And if you know (or think you know) you’d enjoy spending time with a Dominant or submissive partner, this is a great way to find out with a lot less pressure. You can have the new experience of a different kind of date while also navigating a briefly negotiated power exchange. Yes, just like any other power exchange situation, you’ll need to negotiate what will and won’t happen on this date, but it’s a great way to play with power in a (slightly less) high-pressure situation.

Find a Kinky Plus-One for an Event

If you’re invited to an event but don’t have anyone to accompany you, get yourself a male escort. Pick a man that you like, book an appointment, and it’ll all be set. Simple as that!  It’s the perfect thing to do if you want to avoid appearing lonely at the event. Also, having an attractive guy by your side will surely make some heads turn your way.

Want to play out a kink fantasy of being in total control? Find an escort willing to be your submissive for the night. Consent will still be necessary, but they may be willing to do all kinds of non-sexual service for you so you can concentrate on looking fabulous and have a good time.

Would you rather be guided or told what to do for the evening? Look for a male escort who will take on a more Dominant role for you. With a few prenegotiated cues and signals, he may be able to artfully get you out of an awkward conversation and keep you on track for the night — whatever that looks like for you.

You’ll probably turn heads and get a few people talking, whether you’re being doted on or “commanded” but that might be part of the fun, too. It’ll be your kinky secret that no one but you and your escort need to know about.

Make a Kinky Fantasy Come True

Hiring a male escort for women that provides full-on sexual services is a great way to fulfill a kink. You can literally find a man that specializes in the type of fantasy you have and make it come true. If you’re intimidated to try a sexual escort right away, you can perhaps start by hiring a non-sexual one to break the ice.

For those who may be nervous about engaging in the BDSM community — online or in-person — without any experience in fuckery, hiring an escort can provide you with some (but definitely not all) experience, which may boost your confidence.

Want to experience a spanking but worry about who you might meet on an app? Hire an escort willing to give spankings instead.

Want to try your hand at dominating another person? Find an escort who can be the submissive you need (at least temporarily).

When you find a professional escort service and the right escort, you can safely explore all kinds of kink fantasies — both sexual and non-sexual. Just remember that consent applies when hiring an escort of any kind and that you’re working with a professional, so treat them with the respect you’d treat any other service provider.

Post sponsored by Gentlemen 4 Hire

About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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