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How He Makes Blowjobs Kinky For Us #spon

If you’ve been around here for more than a few minutes, you already know that John Brownstone and I have kinky sex. Not as much kinky sex as we’d like. Probably not as kinky as other people’s sexy fun times (not that it’s a kink-competition – would that make it a kinketition?). Hell, your vanilla sex might be my kinky sex.

But we like our sex and our play and our orgasms kinky, thankyouverymuch.

Part of the inner workings of my mind as a submissive (though I’m certainly not speaking for all subs) is that while I might make the first move on him, that’s about as far as I go. I know I want to have sex, be fucked, have my hair pulled, get my ass spanked, and basically do All The Kinky Fuckery. But letting him know is a different story.

My brain freezes up, goes blank, and becomes a complete vacuum. Even when he in his oh-so-Dominant way asks, “What do you want, girl?” (after I’m drooling from both ends) I can’t give a coherent answer.

So when I say that John Brownstone makes any sex act kinky for us, that’s why. I depend on him to lead, in and out of the bedroom, but definitely when it’s sexy-naked-kinky time. How does he do that with blowjobs?

He Makes Me Beg For It

This one is fun when I’m on my knees in front of him. His cock juts forward, in my face. It’s bobbing and twitching; so am I, by the way. I open my mouth to lick, suck, or taste, and NOPE! He pulls away and backs up. So I follow. Every time I get the smallest taste or almost have his cock in my mouth, he’s gone again. I’ve been known to whimper and follow him around the bedroom on my knees, silently begging for his dick.

He Lets Me Worship Him

I do love the feel of a silky, steely shaft on my tongue. I’m not sure who’s more turned on by my groans and moans while he’s in my mouth. When he’s in the mood, sometimes he just sits back and lets me go to town on his cock. I slurp and suck, letting my saliva coat his balls. I bob up and down, creating suction with each stroke. I let him go with a POP! which makes every muscle clench. He might tell me to suck his cock, but then he sits back and enjoys my enthusiastic worship of him.

He Fucks My Face

We couldn’t have a post about kinky blowjobs without mentioning face-fucking, could we? I have a low tolerance for having my air constricted even though I absolutely adore it. Knowing that, a severe, gagging face-fucking isn’t something we do too often or for very long. But fuuuuuuuck it’s hot. I like the pain as he hits the back of my throat. I like the noise I make as he uses my throat. I even enjoy the pressure of his hands on my head or the sting of my hair being pulled and the sore throat I have when he’s done. It’s not about his cock being in my mouth when he does this. It’s about being used.

We Give Into Our Fantasies

I’ve mentioned a time or two that one of our fantasies is to (one day, maybe, possibly, hopefully) include another man in our kinky play. One cock in my cunt and one in my mouth. We don’t have that luxury right now, so we use toys. Most of my sex toys are vibrators, but the few dildos we have are perfect for this. He’s fucking me doggy-style and I’m choking and drooling on a silicone cock, OR he lets me suck on him while I fuck myself on the toy – a bit more complicated but still sexy and kinky for us.

I Help Him Relax

John Brownstone doesn’t always sleep well. His stresses and worries keep him up at night. I know what works for him – orgasms – but sometimes he has to be reminded. I’m not afraid to rub up against him, cup his balls in my palm, stroke his cock, or whisper kinky nothings in his ear. In turn, he’s not afraid to grab my hair and bring me face-to-face with his dick. He’s not even erect yet, but that’s part of the fun. How quickly can I get him there with just my tongue? Oh, and yes, he’s fallen asleep with my mouth still wrapped around him.

We enjoy blowjobs – if you couldn’t tell. What if something happened and I couldn’t give him oral anymore? I don’t like to think about it but I know that weird shit happens to people all the time. Knowing John Brownstone, he would find something else for me to do to/for him (and he’s got an active imagination). Knowing me? I’d look for a toy to simulate a blowjob. No, really.

Since that’s not something I have to worry about, I’m just going to wait and see how kinky he wants his next blowjob. I have no doubt we’ll both get off on it.

And because we’re always looking for more kinky things to try, feel free to share your own experiences with kink and blowjobs.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am a sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, international speaker, kink educator, and all-around kinky woman. You can find me online sharing my innermost sexual thoughts and experiences, teaching other bloggers how to make money writing about sex, and helping kinksters have happy healthy BDSM relationships. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom and business partner, John Brownstone. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

2 Comments

  • A great post and your sponsor will be happy – I’ve been dwelling lately on the thought ‘why aren’t there more/better sex toys for men?’. Women don’t seem to have a problem owning or using them (even when they have a partner) so what about something for the guys?
    I’ll let you know if I actually summon the courage to purchase…

    • Thank you!

      One of the toys JB has used and we HIGHLY recommend is the PULSE III Duo by Hot Octopuss (hotoctopuss.com). We play with it together but he has plenty of fun on his own.

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