The Not-So-Fun Side of DD/lg: Tantrums LB072

In episode 72, Kayla admits to having a major meltdown and tantrum as a babygirl, and John Brownstone talks about how he handles those moments as a Daddy Dom. Even if you don't identify as DD/lg, you might find something to relate to in this episode.

In this episode:

  • Check out my kinky gift guide from Unbound!
  • Enter to win a $200 gift card to Unbound!
  • I had a total babygirl tantrum - crying, whining, pouting - it wasn’t pretty.
  • I'm about to show the good and negative sides of my babygirl self because I trust John Brownstone.
  • But it’s not easy to deal with.
  • Letting out the negative emotions is cathartic even as I'm wondering, "What the hell is wrong with me?"
  • John Brownstone was indulgent - to a point.
  • When I went too far, he laid down the law, which helped me get out of that space.
  • During negative babygirl moments, like tantrums, sexual touch is completely unwanted - even though I don’t think to use my safeword.
  • It’s important for Dominants to learn their littles so you can figure out what works best for your partner. Some need indulging. Some need a firm hand. Everyone is unique.

Links from the show:

Kinky Valentine Guide (use coupon KAYLAVDAY15) ♥ Enter $200 Giveaway

What's the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? (podcast)

Making the Switch to a Daddy Dom/little Dynamic (podcast)

What a Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationship is Really Like (Kinkly)

Being a Daddy or Little isn't About Children (Kinkly)

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, and an opinionated marketer. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!


  • OMG thank you! lol it is nice to know i’m not the only one.
    I am glad you do topics that are Dd/lg. There really isn’t enough out there that is geared toward older babygirls. So much seems to be for the 20 year olds.
    I might have pouted when he said to some degree that there is nothing he can do. Daddy keeps telling me that and I have not believed him.

  • So again meant to be sleeping, but I got pinned to the bed horny kitten! Teeheehee! Are little bear, is always having tantrums and the way she is delt with is she gets a time out . If she has a melt down cos she gets frightened or is stressed, well I get to cuddle her and looks after her! (Yay me) . I get to the point that I about to throw a strop, I now ask to put myself in a time out! ( my time out is 20 mins in a quiet room, with my chill out playlist and no tech) put if I have a strop cos I’m o ear tired, upset with something or not thinking right, frenchi know a firm hand is needed, the amount of times I have been sent to bed, or made to write or sent to the gym to train with Steve (OUCHIE and horny) and not allowed to touch or flirt😕😳😶
    Awdw x x x

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