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Kinky Fuckery and Sex in Our D/s Relationship #podcast

We've been through a nearly sexless month, recovery from medical procedures, and way too much freaking stress, and with all of that, John Brownstone still sat down with me to record a Loving BDSM podcast episode, and guess what we're talking about?! Sex, baby!

It's our very first unscripted episode (which means I still don't have a transcript ready for anyone to read) but I think it's us at our most natural. We discussed turn-ons as a Dominant and submissive, being sexually available at all times (me, not him), kinks, fetishes, and we laughed...a lot. Oh, and a drinking game was suggested for the 38 minute episode - anytime you hear me say cock, cocky, or (my favorite) twitchy cock - or some variation - take a shot!

Today's my birthday (the big 3-6) and a birthday surprise was added toward the very end. I didn't find out about it until after the editing process was over. My very own Daddy Dom sang happy birthday to me. Gawd, I love that man.

Okay, y'all, get your earbuds out because this episode definitely isn't safe for work. We had a lot of fun while we made this episode. Hopefully, you'll enjoy it as much as we did! As always, feel free to share or leave a review on iTunes - you'll help others find us that way!

From the show...

  • His favorite part of sex as a Dominant - the creativity
  • Her favorite part of sex as a submissive - the power and control she gives him
  • Going from not wanting sex at all to fucking like rabbits. Kayla wants to know - how does a Dominant go from 0 to 60?
  • Kayla might always be sexually available to her Dominant, but she's not turned on 100% of the time, either.
  • Being sexually available in a D/s relationship requires trust and communication. John Brownstone points out that it requires a sense of responsibility as a Dominant. "You don't want to break your toys."
  • Tumblr porn can help share what you like and what turns you on.
  • A kinky scene in the club probably won't end in sex, but it may be a very sexual experience. For Kayla, it's almost always an erotic moment. Except for this one time...
  • John Brownstone doesn't get turned on just because he's in his Dom mode. The Dom Voice doesn't equal an automatic hard-on. What he feels in that moment is all mental, but still a little erotic.
  • Everyone has different turn-ons, kinks, or fetishes. John Brownstone is turned on by boots - one of his fetishes. Kayla is turned on by spankings, hair-pulling, face-smacking, and above all, power.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, and an opinionated marketer. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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