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Being Submissive When You’re in Control #BDSM #podcast

I'm pretty proud of myself this week. I managed to take a stressful week - John Brownstone's still recovering, I had my own stuff, and I felt less than submissive - and not only turn it into a podcast episode, but I also pulled myself out of a possible negative downward spiral that would have resulted in a big old hissy fit. The kind only cured by a spanking, which so wasn't going to happen.

And that's called multi-tasking, y'all.

Anyway, in the process of taking care of Daddy (I know, the words alone imply submission) I felt like I had too much control and started to freak out in my mind. Then I figured it out and talked about it for this week's podcast, because if I'm going through something, I know I'm not the only one.

I listened to this before posting it and that really is how fast I speak most of the time. Normally I'm mindful during the recording because not every one can keep up with my motor mouth (that's what she said) but that didn't happen this time. I'll slow it down next week. Promise!

From the show:

  • Taking care of your Dominant might make you feel like you're in charge. It's simply a different way to serve.
  • If what you're doing is helpful - and your Dominant allows it - you're being more submissive than you realize.
  • Dominants may seem super-human but they need someone to tell them what to do - like taking their medication or going to the doctor - from time to time.
  • If your actions help your Dominant, you're just as submissive as when you're naked, tied up, and at their mercy.

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About the author

Kayla Lords

I am an erotic author, sex blogger, podcaster, freelance writer, and an opinionated marketer. I'm also a masochistic babygirl submissive with an amazing and sadistic Daddy Dom. Welcome to my kinky corner of the internet!

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