We live 440 miles apart. We've known each other for about 15 months. We've been together in a sexual and romantic sense for about a year. We're both ready, so ready, to wake up together, live our lives together, and grow our kinky relationship, together.
With all that in mind, we've started planning how to make this work. I've tried, unsuccessfully, for many months to find a job in his area. As pretty as my part of the world is, we both agree that we don't want him to move here. For our personal and professional preferences, I need to move down there.
I know there are other relationships, vanilla or D/s, that have survived longer than we have as a long distance relationship (LDR). I don't know how they do it. I really don't.
I know there are other relationships that never close the distance between them and remain LDR and/or online only for the duration of the relationship. I can't imagine what that must be like, and it's not something either of us wants.
We know we need to close the distance, and we're willing to do whatever it takes to make that happen. We each have our responsibilities in order to make this work.
Daddy has to deal with his old house, his old life, and find an affordable place for all of us to live - all of which take time and none of its as easy as we'd like. In a perfect world, he'll also find a new job so he can be happier and make more money
I have to make sure I have an income. I'm willing to bring home a third of what I've been making (the bare minimum I need to) in order to make this happen. Maybe it's my babygirl side, maybe it's love, maybe it's some gut instinct that I can't explain, but I know that with the plans I have in place, I won't be at that income level forever. But I'm willing to drastically change my life in order to be with him. (Note: I am not, however, willing to force my children to go without food, shelter, or basic amenities for this. Cable, movies, and video games are NOT needs, so yeah, I'm ok with that temporary sacrifice.)
With all that in mind, I have two plans, and I'm asking for help. No, no, I'm not asking for money (though I do have friends who would graciously help with that, and I love them for it). But I am considering the idea that if it takes a village to raise a child, it may also help a babygirl make her dreams come true.
The smaller portion of my plan is my writing. I need to write and sell books. I need to write quality books, though, so I'm not going to crank out a book a week. I don't have the time to do that and believe that it would be a good read. I'll be promoting my work a bit more than I have (hopefully, I won't be obnoxious about it, though). What I ask is that if you enjoy my writing, and have like-minded friends, share my links with people. Encourage others to purchase a book or follow me so they can get a feel for my writing style. I'm not everyone's cup of tea - and I'm ok with that.
The next is different and not something I can talk much about on this site. I've started my own digital marketing business - email campaigns, website help, social media help - for small businesses. Of course, I'm sex and kink friendly - how could I not be, right? Because I need and want to maintain my anonymity on this site, I can't cross promote. But if you know someone who has a business and needs help promoting themselves online (and is willing to pay for it, of course), let me know. You can always email me at kaylalords (at) gmail (dot) com.
I'm willing to work my ass off to make this happen. I already work 40+ hours a week at the day job and I've got the boys. I'm making these two dreams happen in the cracks of time at night and on the weekends. No, I don't know how, either. If Daddy didn't require that I attempt to get a good night's sleep every night, I'd just work until midnight every night. Thank God for Daddy and his rules.
If you've already got my book, don't anyone who needs anything, and feel like you don't have anything to offer, please know that just by having you as a follower and a reader, you do more for me than you'll ever know. ((HUGS))